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Sail to Europe in Style: Queen Mary 2 Transatlantic Crossing Review

May 5 to May 12, 2024

I have always wanted to go on a Transatlantic crossing since the Queen Mary did them in my childhood. She was the epitome of class, awesomeness and wealth. We finally decided now was the time!! We had several considerations – #1 I had wanted to do it for most of my life, #2 We were going to Europe this summer, #3 What an awesome way to avoid jet lag (which gets worse as I age) and #4 The cost wasn’t much more than the one way plane fare. (And we could relax, eat and sleep for 8 days to get used to the time change, just enjoy the ship and no TSA or airline hassle.). Of course we chose an inside cabin as the only thing to see for nine days was water. The cabin was very comfortable with a reasonable amount of space. Lots more than even the best first class seat on an airplane.

Before we get into the details, I wanted to point out that in all the cruises we have done, we were never really sad and disappointed to leave the ship. In this case we both were. There was just something about the ambiance, class, and the “Britishness” of the experience that was special. If you have the time to do this, do it. It is by far the best way to get to Europe.

The Queen Mary 2 docked in Southampton, England and on the date we choose, also went 2 more days to Hamberg, Germany. We decided to go all the way to Hamburg since it fit with other things we were planning. 

Boarding in New York was easy. We let Cunard arrange our air travel which was one less worry for us. We flew into La Guardia which used to be a horrible airport. They have redone the entire terminal and what a nice airport now!! Clean, nice art, nice shops, nice people, etc. Our Cunard representative was waiting in the baggage area for all of us who arrived on that flight. Unfortunately, Mike and I had barely made the flight in Charlotte but our luggage didn’t. It was still in Charlotte and would be put on the next flight. Not to worry, the Cunard rep took those who arrived with us to the ship and we waited at the terminal until the next flight arrived. Our luggage was there and the Cunard rep was there with us.

We boarded a Sprinter van with the others who had arrived when our luggage did. Straight to the ship and breezed through check in at Cunard and to our well appointed cabin. The Queen is one of the ships now using Starlink for Internet and it worked well.

Our dining time and cabin class put us in the main restaurant – the Britannia Restaurant for meals. It is very nicely decorated with subtle colors, which I prefer. Cunard assigns you a table for the duration of the voyage but you do have the option to change tables or sit with others when and if you prefer.

We met lots of people doing the entire voyage – New York, Hamburg and back to New York. When we got to Southampton, same thing, people doing the voyage across the Atlantic and back. Of course, not all, but lots of them were.

The ship gains one hour most days. She doesn’t gain it during the night like most cruise ships, she gains it at noon. The captain came on then and told us lots of ship facts – speed, depth below us, approximate location, temperature, weather, etc. He always ended by saying some quote. The last day it was, “There are good ships, there are wood ships, there are ships that sail the sea. But the best ships are friendships, and may they always be.” An Irish toast.

The buffet is good and they have various stations – bread, salad, grill (for eggs cooked to order, hamburgers, etc.), desserts, drinks, etc. Like on most ships but not quite a extensive.

We had room service twice a day and chocolates every night. There must have been a fair number of German’s onboard. They made announcements in English then in German.

We had cloudy, cool weather for the first few days. But, that was OK. We had lots to explore and do without going outside. Other people did walk. They had a deck where you could walk around the ship, 3 laps were 1.3 miles. At the prow of the ship, the had what looked like sculptures. They were called “The Captain’s Cufflinks” and were actually spare propellers for the ship. I would hate to be the one replacing them mid ocean, but they did have people who could do that if needed!

The Queen has one of the largest libraries at sea, about 10,000 books. It works like a library too since they have two staff for the library and you have to check the books out. The library is at the front of the ship with seating and ocean views. The shelves are gorgeous wood with glass fronts. There is also a Planetarium.

Queen Mary 2 is an ocean liner. It is not a cruise ship. An ocean liner is built with speed, agility and hull strength to transport passengers across oceans. They have a deep, streamlined v-hull that can withstand tough conditions. Cruise ships can certainly cross the ocean but they are mainly built as floating hotels and for entertaining guests. The Queen Mary 2 has a normal cruising speed of about 30 knots. Most cruise ships have an average speed of 21-23 knots and you can feel high seas easier on cruise ships. On Queen Mary 2, we had about 30 feet seas occasionally and we only felt a slight rocking motion. 


There are lots of activities during the day. We went to most of the dance classes. They were taught by a male and a female professional dancer. The first day was the Cha Cha Cha. Just a little much for us, non dancers. Next day was a slow waltz. It didn’t seem too slow to us! Next was the Fox Trot, then another Latin dance, Rumba, then line dancing, and we gave up. They had a different class every day of the voyage.

They also have Zumba, putting competitions, bridge lessons and games, aerobics, art classes, trivia games, enrichment lectures from guest lecturers from well known historians and artist, Quoits tournaments, croquet, darts competitions, movies, shuffleboard, table tennis, paddle tennis and more. They also had movies as well as music shows in the Queen’s Room. There are several pools and hot tubs – all heated. One pool has a retractable cover they can open when the weather is nice. There is a kid’s program and pools for kids. There is a spa and a casino.

Entertainment was offered most of the afternoon and all evening. There were several very good pianist, each with different song themes – blues, country, classical etc., a harpist, a Folk Duo,  Harmony String Trio who were excellent, a Jazz Trio, a Dixieland Jazz group, an excellent Queen Mary 2 Orchestra, a Queens Room Quartet, etc. Lots of music whenever and wherever. The Royal Shakespeare Company was onboard with an enhanced program of theater productions and workshops. Evenings they had music in many venues and shows in the Royal Court Theater. – musical and comedians mostly, but they were good. One night there was a tribute to the big bands, which of course meant lots of dancing.

And the BEST activity – the British know how to do Afternoon Tea!! They set it up in the Queen’s Room with live music. The tables are in groups of 2-6, set with white linen, place  settings of a small plate, tea cups and saucers (all white Wedgwood), silver spoon for the tea saucer, fork and knife on the plate and real flowers. Strawberry jam was set out (individual jars, probably a hold over from COVID), sweeteners and cream for your tea. At 3:30, a line of servers with white coats, black pants or skirts and white gloves came out with silver tea pots and started serving.  Everyone clapped a cadence for them to enter. There were so many servers, it didn’t take long (there were several hundred people there). Then they all came out with little sandwiches on a tray. Everyone got sandwiches. Then they brought out the sweets platters. Then circulated with trays of more sweets and sandwiches. Then they brought out the scones!! Wonderful scones!!! With little dishes of clotted cream that was soooo good. And they keep bringing tea and all the other stuff until most people left. It was very coordinated and great!! It was awesome and they have it down pat!!

We always find our favorite place to sit and our favorite bar. This was no exception. We mostly sat in the Chart Room which has comfortable chairs and seating and is also a bar. We also checked out several other bars – the Golden Lion, the Champagne Bar, the G32 in the evenings for dancing, and Corinthia Lounge with a large area and comfortable seating where they did trivia games, etc. But we always ended up back in the Chart Room.

We ate at almost all of their venues. We ate in the Golden Lion, a British Pub. Excellent fish and chips and Sticky Toffee pudding. All the food was great!

The Britannia Restaurant was the main restaurant. The buffet was called Kings Court. It had a regular buffet, grill area with hot dogs, hamburgers, etc, a sushi area, an area for light meals such as salads and sandwiches, and another area for pizza. There is also a speciality restaurant called the Steakhouse at the Verandah. There is an area called Sir Samuel’s which had “light bites”. There are also separate restaurants for suite guests. The service was good and the food was good. Not the best we ever had on a cruise ship, but certainly very good.

Our first formal night was our second night on board. We will have 2 on our 9 day cruise. You don’t have to participate but most people who sail on the Queen enjoy dressing up and dancing in the Queen Room to a live orchestra. There are several themes for the formal nights. The fist night was “Black and Gold”. We had gold accessories and wore some black. Some people really went to a lot of trouble to go with that theme, but most of us just accessorized. Our second formal night was a “Masquerade Night”. We had fancy masks. Most people wore masks. Again, only some people went all out. Both nights were lots of fun. You got to see everyone dressed up and enjoy the dancing and music. 

Supper on formal nights was a step up. The first night we had Lobster Bisque, Chateaubriand and Cheesecake. The second one, we had onion soup and surf and turf – large shrimp and filet. It was good. Mike also had a lemon thing with a lemon cello topping.

The British Immigration representative came on board a few days out from Southampton. Everyone took their ship ID and passport to him. Everyone on board ship has to do this, even if they aren’t getting off in Southampton. Nice that we could do it on ship and not have to go through Immigration when we got to England.

The Queen also has Kennels. We couldn’t go in but we could see in and there was a walkway the dogs could go on with their owners. Cunard ships have always carried animals on board. Some worked for their passage, such as Britannia’s three cats finding the ship’s vermin. More exotic travelers have included an elephant, a hippo, a raccoon and a monkey. Some have even hitched a lift across the Atlantic, including one sparrow who forgot to disembark at Southampton and landed in New York. Dogs and cats continue to travel in style across the Atlantic on board Queen Mary 2. There are 24 kennels, lots of space to play and a dedicated owner’s lounge. So as not to cause any homesickness, British dogs find familiarity with a lamppost taken from the Cunard building in Liverpool and dogs from the USA naturally enjoy a New York City fire hydrant!

The 14th deck has a “Look Out”. You can see far out to the front of the ship. Cunard also has free laundry machines on every other deck; free soap, free washing machines and dryers. They even had irons and ironing boards for those who still do that (not me!).That was nice!!

When we arrived in Southampton, we had scheduled an excursion to Stonehenge. The other option was an excursion to Windsor Castle. Interesting note: We docked at the Mayflower terminal – one of five in Southampton. White Star (now Cunard) has always docked here. This is where the Titanic sailed from.

We left the ship on a bus and had a ride of an hour and 15 minutes. The guide said it was the best weekend in a long time. It was beautiful, sunny and mild. There were some interesting things on the way there – New Forest which is a protected area where animals have free reign – roaming horses, ponies, sheep, cows pigs, donkeys and deer. It was set up a long time ago with rules – no cutting trees, no fences and no hunting. The only one who has cut trees here was Admiral Cornwall. He had 2,000 trees cut to make one warship in the 18th century. Since 2015 it has been a National Park.

We passed Salisbury Cathedral which has the highest spire in England (in Salisbury). It is 404 feet. It is early English Gothic and took 38 years to build. Of note, the Salisbury Cathedral has the best copy of the Magna Carter in it. (Only 4 copies remain.) We also went through Hampshire, England where Florence Nightingale was buried in St Margaret of Antioch Churchyard.

Stonehenge is interesting!! Stonehenge dates to 3,000 BC so 5,000 years. Same age as the Egyptian Pyramids. It is surrounded by burial grounds.

I had been to Stonehenge about twenty years ago, and really wanted Deedee to see it. When I came there was no visitors center, just a fence around the site. Walk in, go anywhere you wanted. and next to no people. Now it’s overrun with tourists. Still very much worth the visit.

In 1918, the property was sold for 6,600 pounds. Today it is worth 51 million.

From the bus parking, it is a 5 minute shuttle ride to the stones or you can walk – about an hour for 2.6 miles. Summer and Winter solstice days are free admission and you can walk among the stones.

We took the shuttle bus to the rocks at Stonehenge. There were lots of people but the area around the stones that you could go in was large enough, people dispersed around fairly well. It was easy to get to the edge of the ropes and get good pictures. Then back to the Welcome Center which has only been there for 10 years. The buildings themselves were OK but the “decorative” stuff with the pipes on the outside were awful. They were supposed to represent the stones and help the building blend in to the landscape. I think it failed miserably and would have been better off without the decorations.

Back to the bus. There are 130 burial mounds around the stones. The people were buried in a crouching position. They can tell if a man or woman was buried there. Men had objects such as tools and weapons. Women had household objects and jewelry.

We returned to the port, we visited with an old friend of ours and Stony Truitt’s. Mike is a retired corporate pilot that flew Global’s and many other aircraft types all over the world. For a time he was Elton John’s pilot. He is also a precision watch maker, and is doing that in retirement. Mike took us to a delightful pub tucked away in a corner that would be difficult for any tourist to find, so was a local house. Wonderful food and great company

Southampton has 2 high tides and 2 low tides – called double peak high and low tides. It is a good shipping port because of that – there are 17 hours of rising tides. It is the largest container port in England.

Lots of people must have boarded in Southampton. The ship was definitely more crowded.

In Hamburg, Cunard arranged for a bus to take a us to the train station. We went from there to our hotel for the night. 

Overall, this was a fabulous way to cross the pond. We were never without something to do if we wanted, but most of the time, relaxing, reading and just unwinding were our preferred choice. We are both looking forward to finding an excuse to do this again.

Next up – Hamburg and Zurich.

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US Christmas Traditions

I love Christmas!! It is my favorite holiday! Not just the religious aspect, I love the decorations, family time, food, and fellowship of this time of the year.

Today, most Americans blend religious and secular customs with their own family traditions, often incorporating food, decorations and rituals from places they or their ancestors once called home. Roast turkey and ham are popular for Christmas dinner throughout the country, but depending on the region, so are tamales, roast goose with red cabbage, crawfish jambalaya, roast pork or “seven fishes” seafood salad.

Using mistletoe inside began because of the healing properties of the herb. Since it blossoms even in the coldest winter, the Celtic Druids began to look at it as a symbol of vivacity. The association between mistletoe and fertility/vitality strengthened through the Middle Ages and became part of Christmas. Kissing under the mistletoe began in England where men could sneak a kiss from any woman standing under the mistletoe. Any refusal was considered bad luck

The nativity scene of Jesus’ birth was begun by St. Francis of Assisi who created an original living nativity around 1223 in a cave in Grecio, Italy. He created it to help his followers better understand the birth of Jesus. At the time, plays were a common way for the church to help people learn scriptures. The nativity scene typically has at least Mary, Joseph and Jesus. Shepherds, sheep, angels, donkey, ox, and the Magi (Three Wisemen) and their camels

Advent is a religious event that has been celebrated since the 4th century. It is a four-week period that starts on the Sunday closest to the November 30 feast day of St. Andrew the Apostle to prepare for Christmas. It is a celebration of the coming of Christ.

Advent is 4 weeks and represented in the church with a wreath made of a circle of evergreen branches to symbolize eternal life. There are 4 candles in a circle on the wreath. Each week a new candle is lit. The candles all represents something different. The first candle is The Candle of Hope representing God’s people shining in a dark place and the hope we have in Jesus. The second candle is the Candle of Peace, representing the old testament prophets and the peace we find in Jesus. Third is the Candle of Love, representing John the Baptist and the love we have for Christ. the last candle is the Candle of Joy, representing Mary, the mother of Jesus and the joy we find in Jesus. In the center if the circle is the Christ Candle, lit on Christmas Day. It represents the birth of Christ and reminds us Jesus is the light of the world and if we follow Him, we will never walk in darkness, but have the true light of life.

The Advent calendar was possibly created in the 19th century by a housewife who was tired of being asked when Christmas would come. The 24 openings have a picture or small gift for each day beginning December 1. Some towns have entire buildings and celebrations around opening of each window.

Yule logs are a tradition that is said to predate Christianity. As part of the winter solstice celebrations, Gaels and Celts burned logs decorated with holly, ivy and pinecones to cleanse themselves of the past year and welcome the new one. Europe had much ado about the Yule log for many years with different ways of ensuring the burning of the log for the 12 Days of Christmas. Today the yule log is usually a log shaped dessert, very tasty.

The tradition of leaving milk and cookies for Santa Claus is a tradition which dates back to ancient Norse mythology. Odin, the Norse god, had an eight legged horse named Sleipnir. Kids would leave treats for Sleipnir hoping to get treats in return. This tradition became popular in the US during the Great Depression when parents tried to impress upon kids the importance of being grateful for anything they were lucky enough to receive for Christmas.

Evergreen fir trees are universal winter decorations. They were used as a reminder that spring would come again; the Romans placed them around temples to honor Saturn, the god of agriculture. In the 16th century, German Christians brought the trees inside their homes as a symbol of everlasting life.

Germany started the Christmas tree tradition as we now know it in the 16th century when devout Christians brought decorated trees into their homes. Decorations for these trees were made by hand. Trees were decorated with berries, popcorn and nuts to feed the birds and the custom continued with indoor trees.

Martin Luther is said to be the first person to put lights on a Christmas tree. Legend has it that he was walking through a forest one night and was moved by the beautiful stars shining through the trees. When he got went home, he recreated what he saw for his family by putting a tree in their living room and placing lighted candles on its branches.

The first president to set up a Christmas tree in the White House was Franklin Pierce, and the first president to establish the National Christmas Tree Lighting Ceremony on the White House lawn was Calvin Coolidge.

Christmas Caroling was begun in Europe thousands of years ago before the establishment of Christmas when it was a celebration of the Winter Solstice. The word carol means dance or song of praise and joy. Christmas carols were possible first written in Latin in the 4th and 5th centuries.

Carol singing has come and gone but was revived to include singing at home, church and on the street as well as in plays since the 1800s The first printed publication of Christmas music helped widen interest in carols. It was published in 1833 and included “God Rest Ye Merry Gentlemen “, “The First Noel”, “I Saw Three Ships”, and “Hark! The Herald Angles Sing”. Almost all Christmas carols have some part of the Christmas theme, whether the birth of Jesus or the celebrations of the season (snow, sleigh rides, etc.).

Each carol has an interesting history. “Silent Night” was thought to have been written n Christmas Eve for the midnight mass in Orberndorf, Austria in 1818. Two priests adapted a poem and introduced it at their service despite their church organ being broken.

“Joy to the World” contains Christian imagery/. Its lyrics originate in the Old Testament in a 1719 translation of the Psalms of David, melody crafted in the 19th century.

The first version of”O Tannenbaum”, “O Christmas Tree”, originated in Germany, maybe as early as the 16th century. This carol pays homage to a universal symbol of Christmas, an evergreen tree.

“Santa Claus is Coming to Town” was written by Haven Gillespie in 1934 just after he learned his brother had died. On the subway ride home, remembering his childhood with his brother and his mother’s warning that Santa was watching, he composed the song and had a composer wrote the music.

“Deck the Halls” dates back to the 16th century Wales where its melody and many of the lyrics were from a New Year Eve song. Undergoing several changes such as “fill the meadcup, drain the barrel” to “don we now our gay apparel”, the current version became popular in 1887.

“Jingle Bells” was originally written in the 1850s in Savannah, Georgia. Called “The One Horse Open Sleigh” was a celebration of Thanksgiving. The song was renamed in 1857 and is as we know it today. The song made history in 1965 when it became the first song broadcast in space. The crew of Gemini 6, following reports of seeing Santa Claus, did an improvised version using bells and a harmonica they had snuck on board.

Christmas Pickle – If there’s a pickle among your snowman, angel and reindeer ornaments, you’re likely taking part in the American tradition of hiding the green ornament on the tree, so that the first child to find it gets an extra gift, or has good luck for the following year. The practice’s origins are a bit murky (or should that be briny?), but, it’s likely it grew from a Woolworths marketing gimmick from the late 1800s, when the retailer received imported German ornaments shaped like a pickle and needed a sales pitch.

Candy Canes – Candy canes can be devoured as a treat or hung on the tree as decoration. They date back to 1670 in Cologne, Germany. The most popular account is that a choirmaster wished to quiet the children in his church, Cologne Cathedral, during their yearly Living Creche tradition each Christmas Eve. He reportedly commissioned a local candy maker to create what he referred to as sweet sticks for the children. He specified that they should have a crook at the top of each stick, to remind the children of the shepherds who visited the baby Jesus. He also specified that he should use the color white to teach the children about Christianity and remind them of Jesus’ sinless life. This trend caught on quickly and spread throughout Europe where other congregations began to hand out the candy canes during nativity plays.

The red and white peppermint sticks arrived in the US in 1847, when a German-Swedish immigrant in Wooster, Ohio placed them on a tree. By the 1950s, an automated candy cane making machine was invented. Candy canes are the number 1 selling non chocolate candy during December.

We have so many great Christmas traditions! Many families develop their own traditions to become part of the family story. It’s a great way to connect our family together and to the world. Wouldn’t it be fun to try a different tradition from somewhere in the world and see if that fits your celebration? It’s an easy internet search.

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Lucky Places

Looking for a little luck this year? While you could wish on a star or hunt for a four-leaf clover, there are certain locations around the world that are famous for bringing people good fortune in love, work, family, finances and more. Some even bring better health.

Close to home is Friendship Oak in Long Beach, MS. On the front lawn of the University of Southern Mississippi’s Gulf Park campus stands a sprawling oak tree more than 500 years old and nearly six stories tall. It is said that those who enter its shade together will remain friends for the rest of their lives.

At Jade Cove in Big Sur, CA you might find a jade stone. People typically find the dark green jades here. In many cultures around the world, jade is thought to bring good luck.

Hoover Dam, on the Nevada side, there are two 30 foot tall bronze statues known as the Winged Figures of the Republic. Touching the feet is said to bring you good luck.

Abraham Lincoln’s Tomb in Springfield, Illinois has a large bronze bust of Lincoln in front of the memorial. Millions of people have rubbed the nose of the statue for good luck.


The two best known locations around the world are the Trevi Fountain in Rome and the Blarney Stone in Blarney, Ireland.

The Trevi Fountain dates back to the 1700s but the tradition of throwing coins into it became even more popular in the 1950s thanks to the American film “Three Coins in the Fountain”. Visitors fling a coin with their right hand backward over their left shoulder into the fountain. Some say tossing one coin over your back into the fountain assures you will return to Rome. Two coins brings love and three means you’ll get married. Over $1 million in coins is collected every year and donated to a local charity.

If you kiss the Blarney Stone in the Blarney Castle built over 600 years ago, you will have the gift of “blarney” or the gift of eloquence and good fortune in matters of persuasion. By the way, the only way kiss it is to climb to the top of the battlements, lean over backward holding on to a metal bar, scoot yourself over to the edge and kiss the stone.

Hagia Sophia in Istanbul, Turkey, is a 6th century place of worship turned into a museum. It is considered one of the world’s great monuments and it is also a major tourist attraction. The Weeping Column or the Column of St. Gregory is said to “weep” with healing holy water. Visitors can put their thumb into a hole in the side of the column and if it comes out damp, legend says their Illness will be cured. Another legend says that when you put your thumb in the hole and rotate your hand, you will be granted a wish.

Il Porcellino is a bronze boar statue in Florence, Italy, sculpted in 1634, which draws hundreds of visitors a day hoping for good luck. Visitors rub the boar’s snout while dropping a coin in his mouth. If the coin slides back out and falls through the grating beneath the statue, that guarantees good luck and that you will return to Italy one day.


Madron Well in Cornwall, England is purported to have healing waters. Traditionally, visitors would take pieces of rag or ribbon, known as clouties, that were torn from a part of the body where they had an injury or illness. They would tie the clouties in a nearby tree, and as the piece disintegrated, their affliction would also disappear. Today, the tree is still filled with colorful pieces of cloth for blessings and luck.

The Wishing Trees (Banyan trees), Lam Tsuen, Tai Po, Hong Kong are famous for their wish granting abilities. Write your wish on a piece of paper, tie it to a mandarin orange and toss it as high as possible into the tree branches. If the orange gets caught n the branches, the wish will come true.

Nuremberg, Germany has a 14th century fountain, Schoner Brunnen, with tiers of stone religious figures. This is surrounded by a protective railing with two rings embedded in the grate. People believe if you turn the rings, it will bring good fortune to you.


The last one I am going to tell you about is the Laughing Buddha in the Lingyin Temple, Hangzhou, China. There are many replicas of this statue. He is said to the the origin of the tradition of rubbing the Buddha’s belly for good luck.

I don’t know about you, but everything I can do, silly or not, to have good luck or better health, I’m in.

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Conde Nast Traveler Awards

Best of the Best type lists have always interested me. I compare my opinion to what’s on the list or see if there are new places I want to try. Condé Nast Traveler recently put out their list of “2020 Readers Choice Awards”. Condé Nast Traveler is recognized as a luxury and lifestyle travel magazine with a motto of “Truth in Travel”. They have articles on a wide range of the travel topics, world wide,  including destinations, hotels, food and beverage, airlines, trains, etc. 

One list on the Readers Choice Awards was the top ten islands in the United States. Of course, Hawaii had three listed – Maui was  #2, Oahu was #6 and Lanai was #10. Florida had three – Marco Island #3 (near Naples on the Paradise Coast), Longboat Key #8 (on the west coast) and Amelia Island #9 (on the northeast coast). St Simons and Little St Simons in Georgia was #4. South Carolina also had three – Isle of Palms #7, Kiawah Island #5 and the NUMBER 1 island in the US was Hilton Head Island! 

I know most of you would have some questions about their top beaches list. Although Coligny Beach at Hilton Head is on the list as well as the beach at Kiawah, there was no mention of Edisto or Folly, a serious omission. But I guess no list is perfect.

Other topics on their list include best  hotels, best cities, best  resorts, best spa resorts, best countries, best islands, best trains, top hotels in many cities all over the world, and travel choices for Europe, US, Asia, Mexico, Canada, Caribbean and Atlantic, Central and South America, Australia and the Pacific, Africa and the Middle East. They also list readers choices for cruise lines and islands, airlines, airports and trains. They publish a magazine and have an internet presence for interesting and pertinent information about lots of travel options.

In the future I will focus on some of the other lists and make comments about the places we have been.

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When Cruising Returns

When cruising starts back you will see some changes. No one is being specific but they are giving some idea of the things to expect. The cruise lines are working with health experts and elected officials to return using the best and safest path for passengers and crew. There will be a “new normal”.

Ships will likely not return with full capacity. There will be limited capacity so physical distancing will be possible. There will probably be floor markers for distancing as well as plexiglass barriers and spaced out seating. There will also be areas of the ship that will restrict the number of guests allowed in at a given time such as bars, restaurants and entertainment venues.

Embarkation and debarkation will be staggered to limit the number of guests in an area. Masks (with your mouth and nose covered) will likely be required in public spaces and in situations where physical distancing isn’t possible.

Health screenings will be more comprehensive and required before boarding. Temperature checks will be commonplace – upon boarding, upon returning from a shore excursion and probably occasionally at least the first few days onboard. Some lines may require negative COVID-19 test result prior to boarding as many tourist destinations are currently doing. Crew members will be tested routinely.

Some cruise lines will do away with the beloved buffet. Some will have the buffet but it will be served to guests by PPE equipped staff. Frequent hand washing is one of the easiest ways to help prevent spread of disease so there will be more hand washing stations and hand sanitizer dispensers throughout the ship.

Shore excursions will be set up differently and likely limited in what a guest can do in a port. One cruise line that is already cruising in Europe for example, requires guests to participate in only their shore excursions and are not allowing them to go off on their own. They mean it too – one family group went off on their own after leaving with the ship excursion and when they returned to the ship, they were not allowed to re-board and their luggage was packed and brought out to them.

Muster drills will probably be via an electronic device (I’m in favor of that!) with guests visiting their assigned assembly stations to confirm their participation. This will be set up in a way to avoid the mass gathering in the ship. But they will have ways of checking your participation so don’t think you can get out of it!

Cruising will be different when we get back to it, but it will still be a great way to travel and still have fun!!

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The Hotel del Coronado

The Hotel del Coronado or The Del or Hotel Del is a historic beachfront hotel in the city of Coronado just across the San Diego Bay from San Diego, California. It is one of the few surviving examples of a wooden Victorian beach resort. It is the second largest wooden structure in the US and is a California Historic Landmark as well as a National Historic Landmark. We have  been to this hotel. It is worth a visit even if you don’t stay there.

In 1885 it was dreamed of and 4,000 acres were purchased. The 399 room hotel opened for business in February, 1888 as the single largest resort in the world. The original grounds had many amenities, including an Olympic-sized salt water pool, tennis courts, and a yacht club with architecture resembling the hotel’s grand tower. A Japanese tea garden, an ostrich farm, billiards, bowling alleys, hunting expeditions, and deep sea fishing were some of the many features offered to its guests. Today there are 679 guest rooms as well as 78 ocean-view cottages and villas, a wellness spa, beauty salon, fitness center, multiple pools, shops, beautiful grounds and lots of recreational activities and water sports such as deep sea fishing available.

This hotel has always been popular with almost all the US presidents as well as many celebrities staying there. Douglas Fairbanks, Charlie Chaplin, Clark Gable, Errol Flynn, Mae West, Joan Crawford, Katharine Hepburn, Bette Davis, Ginger Rogers, Marilyn Monroe, Kevin Costner, Jimmy Steward, Whoopi Goldberg, Keanu Reeves, Brad Pitt and Oprah Winfrey are among the stars who have stayed at the hotel.

The hotel has been featured in at least 12 films including “Some Like It Hot” with Marilyn Monroe, Jack Lemmon and Tony Curtis, in “Wicked, Wicked”. “The Stunt Man” with Peter O’Toole, “My Blue Heaven” with Steve Martin and Rick Moranis, and “The Neuron Suite”

Frank Baum did much of his writing of “The Wonderful Wizard of Oz” while staying here. Other authors have used the setting in their works. Some of the storylines of “Baywatch” season 4 evolve in and around the hotel. And there is even a US Postage Stamp honoring director Billy Wilder with images of Marilyn Monroe and the hotel from “Some Like It Hot”. The Hotel Del is famous for having the worlds’s first outdoor electrically lit Christmas tree in 1904.

There are reportedly several ghosts in residence at the hotel. Kate Morgan was staying there in 1892.  She told the staff she was waiting for her brother. She was found dead on the steps leading to the beach three days later. She had shot herself. There is also the ghost of an actress who drowned in 1904.

To get to the hotel, you can drive across the San Diego-Coronado Bay Bridge, which is a dramatic two-mile long bridge with a 90-degree turn at its midpoint. Another option is to take the ferry which departs from the foot of Broadway in San Diego.

This is as eclectic as you can get, and is a highlight of any visit to San Diego. (A great town in its own right.)

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Hauntings in SC

The Coastal Region

There is so much history in our state! Part of that history is the stories we hear about ghost hauntings. Charleston and the coastal part of the state is inundated with ghost stories from parks to churches to homes and gardens. Lots of our stories are famous and some are lesser known. Until I was looking for stories, I had never heard the following one.

The Unitarian Church in is the second oldest on Charleston. There is a story about a young girl named Anna Ravenel. She fell in love with a soldier stationed at Fort Moultrie in 1827. The 14-year-old was to be married to an aristocratic young man, but she fell in love with 18-year-old Edgar Perry, who fell in love with her. Anna and Edgar ignored her father, often meeting together in the church cemetery.

Anna’s father separated them by locking Anna up and having Edgar transferred to a fort in Virginia. Anna became very ill and died before Edgar could get back to her. Anna’s father was so determined to keep them separate that he had six graves dug in the cemetery and buried her in one, not marking which was his daughter’s. Edgar never found out which grave was Anna’s. Anna’s ghost is reported to still appear around her grave, looking for Edgar. The interesting thing about this story is that Edgar joined the army before he was old enough and used a pseudonym. His real name was Edgar Allan Poe, who among his works, wrote a poem about Annabelle Lee which could easily have been a poem about his love for Anna.

The Old City Jail is said to be one of the most haunted buildings in Charleston and there are plenty of reasons why. Thousands of people died at the jail. Probably the most famous hauntings is from Lavinia Fisher, so called the first woman serial killer, and her husband John who owned a hotel. They reportedly killed over 100 wealthy men and stole their valuables. Another famous “ghost” is Jacque Alexander Tardy is best known for piracy and killing people on several ships, blaming the chefs on the ships. 

In the park near the Battery, called White Point, dozens of pirates were hung. Many left dangling from their nooses to deter other pirates from entering Charleston Harbor are rumored to haunt the park.

At the Edisto Presbyterian Church cemetery, Julia Legare is said to guard the family mausoleum. When she was a young girl in the mid 1800s, she fell very ill and the doctor declared her dead. Her family placed her in the mausoleum. 15 years later, when the family opened it to bury another relative, they found the cries that were heard after her death had been real. Julia was found at the door as if she had tried to escape. The mausoleum has been sealed again and again but the door is always found open. As if Julia refuses to be locked in again. 

Central SC

Hauntings in Central South Carolina are almost as plentiful as those in the coastal region. Lost loves are a big part of the stories. Quaker Cemetery in Camden is an example. Agnes from Glascow, Scotland stowed aboard a ship and came to the US in search of her fiance. He had been sent to the US during the American Revolution to fight the colonist. She heard he was in Camden and followed him there. He had moved on, she fell gravely ill, died and was buried in the Quaker Cemetery. Her spirit is said to be wandering around the graveyard, searching for him.

The University of South Carolina has many stories. Some people report seeing lights on at night in the South Caroliniana Library where a former president, James McKissick, who is buried in front of the library, is said to be wandering around the building and reading the books. Students in one of the dorms reportedly have seen a female with long dark hair. She is thought to be the daughter of Dr. Black who was murdered by a group of soldiers. She avenged her father’s murder by poisoning the soldiers. Her spirit and those of the soldiers now reside in the building.

The Congaree River  Bridge is apparently haunted by the restless spirt of a young girl sho stands by the side of the road trying to hitch a ride. She asks drivers to take her home. About half way there, she vanishes without a trace.

The State Museum is another place people report seeing a ghost. It is the ghost of a former mill worker, Bubba, who worked there when it was a textile mill. It is believed he died in an industrial accident. He is most often spotted on the fourth floor near the Old Country Store. Most of the time he is a real looking man wearing overalls but sometimes he is just boots and partial legs.

The Adluh Flour Mill is reported to be inhabited by a former longtime employee who died. It is believed that his soul is pinned to his old work cart which to this day has proved impossible to move.

The Keller Hall Bell Tower at Newberry College is where a love story is the source of the haunting. A female student reportedly jumped from the tower during the Civil War after finding out her Union soldier boyfriend had died in the war. Her ghost is spotted roaming the campus crying out for her beloved.

A search shows many, many more stories. Have fun looking!

In the Upstate of SC

Upstate South Carolina has it’s share of haunted places. Cry Baby Bridge is located in Anderson and is said to be haunted by the spirit of an infant who was thrown from the bridge by it’s mother. It is said that if you stop your car on this bridge at night and cut your car off, you can hear the baby cry and see it’s mom walking, looking for her child.

Hell’s Gate or Oakwood Cemetery is in Spartanburg and it reputed to cause issues with your cell phone during the day – battery draining, phone ringing when it is cut off, etc. At night it is said that you can see orbs, a white shrouding mist and hear the laughter or crying of children and hear disembodies voices. Photos have seemed to show small faces peeping from behind trees or headstones. Be careful if you go there at night because it has the reputation for being the site for grave robbing and Satanic rituals. These Satanic rituals have reportedly created a portal to hell so that evil spirts can mingle with the people buried there. 

Greenville’s Tuberculosis Hospital in Greenville has been a tuberculosis hospital, an insane asylum, and a prisoner release site. It has since burned but they say you can hear voices, sobs, footsteps and other sounds here. According to legend, sometimes rain puddles turn red, supposedly the blood of the TB patients. 

Woodruff is home to Seven Devil’s Bridge which can only be crossed on foot. Seven men were hung there are reputed to haunt the bridge at midnight. If you cross the bridge then, you will experience all manners of tragic experiences with most ending in screams of horror. 

The Shamrock House, at the base of Sassafras Mountain, built in 1925, was a family dwelling. Now it is a guest house you can stay in. According to stories, a young woman who died there haunts the house. Lights turn on and off and doors open by themselves along with the ghostly footsteps and cold spots. This house has also been used as a backdrop of “The Long Journey Home, a Big Foot Movie” and “The Hills Have Thighs” movies.

Another haunted bridge in the upstate is Poinsett Bridge. It is one of the oldest bridges in the state and is listed in the National Registry of Historic Places. It is no longer used for vehicle traffic, but it used to be part of the main route from Columbia to Asheville. There are two stories about the hauntings – by a slave who was hung while the bridge was being built or that it was built on Indian land and the tribe haunts the bridge. Most of the reports about this bridge include strange lights which seem to float on the mountain, voices, screams and apparitions. 

There are many other haunted sites in our state. Have fun checking them out!

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SC Walking Trails

How about a nice walk outside? South Carolina has many walking trails from easy to difficult. Some have waterfalls, some are on the beach, in the mountains, level ground, hilly, just about anything you want!

There are lots of river walks all over the state. River Park in Rock Hill is 3.5 miles of walking trails mostly along the Catawba River. Landsford Canal State Park in Chester County is also along the Catawba River. The Columbia Canal and Riverfront Park is 2.5 miles and part of the Palmetto Trail. While you are there, visit the West Columbia Riverwalk which is 8 miles of pavement and boardwalk along the Congaree River. The Waterfront Park in Beaufort or the Conway Riverwalk are both close enough to shops to walk for a bite to eat after your walk.

I could walk all day on the beach but if you want a little variety on your beach walk, try the state parks at Huntington Beach, Edisto, Hunting Island or Myrtle Beach. We also have beautiful marsh walks at Shem Creek Park in Mt Pleasant or Murrells Inlet.

The Palmetto Trail is a system of hiking and biking trails being developed in SC. The trails run beside lakes, in mountains, through forests, large and small towns and swamps. Begun in 1994, it will be 500 continuous miles from Walhalla in the Blue Ridge Mountains to Awendaw on the Intercoastal Waterway when finished. It is currently 350 miles with 26 passages raging from 1.3 to 47 miles. Parts are rated easy, moderate, or strenuous. It is one of 16 cross-state trails in the United States. We even have a trail head in Santee, behind the Town Hall Complex. This portion is 13.2 miles and goes through agricultural land, offering a number of activity options and is accessible year-round. The Southern part of the trailhead is at the Eutawville Community Center near Hwy 45 and 6. Each section is called a passage and include the Swamp Fox Passage, Santee, Fort Jackson, Lake Moultrie, Lake Marion and Capital City Passages. 

So, put on your walking or running shoes and explore our state!

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Port Fees and Taxes

What are Port Fees and Taxes on a cruise? Port Fees and Taxes are something you pay every time you cruise. It isn’t normally included in the quoted price of the cruise. Like gratuities, it is an additional cost of the cruise. This fee may include any and all fees, charges, tolls and taxes imposed on the cruise line, by governmental authorities, as well as third party fees and charges arising from a vessel’s presence in a harbor or port. 

Each time a ship visits a port, the local authorities charge the cruise line a fee in exchange for the right to dock there and the various services associated with the ship’s visit. These fees include inspection fees, environmental fees, security services as well as docking fees and  a fee for each person on the ship whether or not they visit the port. Those costs also vary from one port of call to another. A per passenger fee is generally called a head tax. The cost covers the passengers using the local port and typically goes toward maintaining facilities that tourist use – dock improvements, police, etc.
Then there is the pilot fee. Every time a ship docks at a port, even if it is just to change berths, they are required to have a local pilot on the bridge to guide the ship. The boat that approaches the ship as it is coming in has the pilot onboard.
Port Fees and Taxes include U.S. Customs fees which covers the cost of paying the people who are at the custom desks and all the people guiding you around in the port.
Every time the Center for Disease Control does an inspection, they assess a fee based on the ship’s weight for the cost of the inspection. And the United States Public Health does unannounced inspections twice a year. The cruise line is charged for this inspection also.
In short, there are a myriad of things the cruise line has to pay for that gets passed along to the passengers. Each port has a different fee. You are assessed the fee based on the inspections done on a regular basis, security and custom people as well as what each port charges for docking.
Remember the cruise line pricing for a cruise does not include the Port Fees and Taxes. Just figure that cost into the price of your cruise when you are working out your budget.

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Ye Old Fighting Cocks a British Pub

Ye Olde Fighting Cocks in the historic city of Saint Albans claims to be Britain’s oldest pub. During the COVID 19 pandemic this pub has become a Community Supply Point, providing groceries and offering free delivery to the elderly. They even deliver Sunday Roast dinners to residents. The pub manager said he looked to the past for inspiration of handling things with the current issues. The summer of 1348, which was centuries after the pub served it’s first beer, the Black Death appeared on the southern shores of England.

This pestilence returned repeatedly. There were at least three waves of the Black Death falling upon England over the century following 1350. One of the many repercussions was especially pertinent to establishments like Ye Olde Fighting Cocks: the rise of pub culture in England.

When the plague arrived in 1348, drinking beer was already a fundamental component of Englishness. Drinking was even enshrined into the Magna Carta of 1215, which “called for uniform measures of ale.”

Drinking pre-Black Death, though, was comparably amateurish. Society revolved around popular celebrations known as ‘ales’: bride-ales, church-ales, – gatherings where plenty of alcohol was drunk. Anyone could brew up a batch of ale in their home, and standards and strengths varied wildly. Home brewed ale was advertised with an ale stake, which consisted of a pole covered with some kind of foliage above the door.

The Plague caused a critical labor shortage; about 50 percent of the population died during this time. This proved to be a good thing for the peasantry of England. They could command higher wages for work and achieve a higher standard of living. As a result, the alehouses were replaced by more commercialized, permanent establishments set up by the best brewers and offering better food

In spirit, though, the pub was there. More ale was drunk, and beer (with hops) was introduced from the Low Countries. Brewing became more commercialized, with taverns and alehouses being gathering places for drinking and playing games and the English pub was born.

Over time these became “public houses”, regulated by authorities. In place of the simple ale stake, Richard II made it mandatory to erect a sign. Gradually, commercial brewers started to build bigger houses that became busy meeting places, hence the term ‘public house’. If you look at pubs today, you can see the community aspect that is the legacy of the alehouse, the architecture and sense of national heritage of the inn, and the tavern tradition of spending the evening with your peers.

For Brits, a pub has always been more than just a place that sells beer. It goes beyond heritage, it goes right into the core of their society. The pub itself defines England, remaining a focal point for their social lives even among nondrinkers. They have become community gathering places and involved in many aspects of community support.

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